How & when should I RSVP?

When: As soon as possible!  

How: To RSVP, click the RSVP tab here on our website. All invited guests in your party will appear here to mark as “attending” or “declining.” Please RSVP before February 1st. If you cannot attend, we would appreciate you still letting us know at your earliest convenience. Any RSVP received after this date will be marked declining and we will be ending final head counts to our vendors.

Where will the wedding be held?

Crosswater Hall
245 Nocatee Center Way
Ponte Vedra Beach, FL 32081

Will the wedding be outdoors?

The wedding ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors (weather permitting). The reception will be indoors.  

What time should I arrive?

The ceremony will begin promptly at 5:00pm. We highly suggest you arrive 15-30 minutes early to mingle with other guests and find a seat. If you arrive late, you will be asked to wait until the ceremony is finished and then join us for cocktail hour.

Where should I stay for the wedding?

We thank you for traveling to celebrate with us. Please visit our “Accommodations” Tab to see hotels in the area. Those listed with a block options are offering a discounted rate when you call and book under “Ryder Lane Wedding”

Can I bring a guest/date?

We unfortunately cannot accommodate additional guests. Due to limited capacity, we can only allow the people named on your invitation Your invitation will be made out to “{Your Name} & Guest” if a plus one has been given to you.

Are kids allowed?

Although we would love to have your children, our wedding is an adult-only affair. We regretfully cannot accommodate everyone’s children at our wedding.

This pertains to children of all ages including infants, toddlers, kids, and teens. We hope you understand and enjoy a night off!

Is there a dress code?

Yes! The dress code is Cocktail Attire (semi-formal). We recommend suit and tie & cocktail dresses. No jeans or sneakers please. Ladies, please refrain from wearing any white, ivory, cream or champagne

Can I take photos during the ceremony?

We ask that you kindly put your phones away and on silent for an unplugged ceremony. We hired a professional photographer to capture this moment. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you want. Bonus – Upload these photos to the QR code.

Can I post pictures on social media? 

We kindly ask that you refrain from posting any pictures of the wedding on social media until the bride and groom have shared their first photos. Thank you for respecting our wishes!

Is there parking? 

Yes, there is complimentary guest parking. However, if you plan on drinking, we recommend using rideshare apps (Lyft / Uber) for transportation or having a DD. 

How does seating work?

The ceremony will be open seating so sit wherever you please! However, we are requesting you avoid the first three rows on each side for our immediate family and bridal party.

For the reception, we will be carefully arranging tables, so our guests are sat with those they know.